Happy Guests This Summer

Whether they’re staying in a guest room or on a pullout bed you can make your holiday guests rave about your hospitality. With the cost of travel offering a comfortable place to stay can make such a difference. 1. Once you’ve shown your guests where they’ll be staying, take some time to walk them through the space. Point out where they can store their luggage and hang clothes, which bathroom they’ll be using, which light switches do what in the room, how to operate any window coverings, and power outlets for charging phones and laptop computers. 2. A tray or basket of toiletry necessities left out provides guests with items they may have forgotten–and will be grateful to have. Think toothbrushes, toothpaste, shampoo and conditioner, shaving cream, a comb, and aspirin or pain relief. Be sure that the bathroom your guests will be using is stocked with toilet paper and facial tissue, too. 3. Additional in-room niceties to consider are an alarm clock, bedside lamp, nightlight, extra blanket, and a pen and notepad in case of in-the-night inspiration. To that end, also make note of the Wi-Fi password so they can do some late-night browsing without having to disturb you. 4. Make your guests feel even more at home by showing them where they can find everything they would need in the kitchen, from glasses and coffee mugs, to bowls and plates, and silverware. Who knows, maybe they’ll feel so much at home they’ll put the coffee on for you in the morning.

The Power of Pets

We know how much love and affection pets can bring to our lives, but there’s more. Scientific studies have found that having a pet can significantly improve your health. Here are five ways pets can positively impact your health: 1. Heart Benefits. The American Journal of Cardiology reports pet owners are more likely to survive a heart attack than those who don’t own a pet. Another study found people who owned a dog were more likely to be alive one year after a heart attack than those who didn’t have a dog. 2. Lower Blood Pressure. The National Institutes of Health (NIH) reports that pets help lower blood pressure (and heart rates). An American study found men who owned a cat had a lower resting heart rate and lower blood pressure than men who didn’t own a cat. And after a stressful event, their blood pressure returned to normal more quickly. 3. Mood Elevator. People, particularly seniors, who own pets are less likely to be depressed and lonely. Pets can provide companionship, humor, and add playfulness to our daily lives. 4. Kids and Health. Research presented at the 10th International Conference on Human Animal Interaction 2004 found that children who have pets have fewer sick days. They also reported that children who had pets had higher levels of self-esteem and functioned better emotionally. Research studies also found that children with pets coped better with divorce. 5. An Exercise Buddy. Dogs need regular exercise, which also gets their owners walking. This can improve their overall health. As an added benefit people improve their social network as they socialize their pet.

Practice Gratitude

Learning to be grateful in your daily life is a surprisingly effective way to improve your health and overall happiness. The benefits of being grateful can be huge. Studies show that people who are more grateful sleep better, feel healthier, have higher self-esteem, have more energy, and experience less stress. Staying grateful isn’t always easy, but with all these physical and mental benefits it’s absolutely worth the investment of your time. Here are some easy ways to practice gratitude on a regular basis. Try out a few of them to see which suits you best. • Keep a “gratitude journal” to jot down 1-2 things you’re grateful for daily. • Actively work on cultivating positivity by looking for a bright side to negative situations. • Pay someone an unexpected complement each day. • Talk about 2-3 positive moments from the day during nightly dinner conversation. • Offer a heartfelt – not routine – “thank you” for a mundane task, such as someone holding a door open for you at the store. • Say out loud what you’re grateful for, even if you’re talking to yourself. • Put a picture of your family, or whatever you’re most thankful for, somewhere you’ll see it multiple times a day. • Donate your time to a favorite cause. Monetary donations are great, but donating your time is even more effective at making you feel grateful.

More Successful Doctor Visits

Going to the doctor can be a bit stressful, even if the reason for your visit is as simple as an annual check-up. It’s easy to become flustered once you’re in an exam room, and the questions you may have had in mind to ask your doctor can quickly disappear. You can make your next appointment a stress-free success with a bit of preparation. Try these tips: • Take notes: If you’re having specific symptoms, keep a journal of the day-to-day changes. Add details like what you eat, what time, changes in mood or appetite, as any little detail might be important. If you’re taking medications, include those as well so your doctor is fully informed. Make notes, too, of questions you have for your doctor – your visit is a two-way conversation and you want to maximize both your own time and your doctor’s. • Timing is everything: Delays at the doctor’s office can increase feelings of anxiety and nervousness. If you can, make appointments first thing in the morning. That could help you avoid the inevitable delays as doctors see other patients and appointment times run over. Try to make sure your day is as free as possible so you don’t stress about your next task if you end up waiting. • Be honest: Not being entirely honest or withholding information from your doctor can be a detriment to you and your health. Remember: your doctor is there to help you. If you find you have a hard time actually saying something you’re embarrassed about–try practicing it out loud in a mirror before your appointment. • Be flexible: You may have a specific treatment in mind when you go into your appointment, but your doctor is a professional. It’s a good idea to at least listen to all the options.

Volunteer Lifestyle

Does anyone think it’s better to give than to receive? We know the answer is yes, but do we know why. Volunteering is not just for retired people we can all give back to the causes we support and make a difference. Here are just a few reasons to find an opportunity to serve. 1. Develop new skills in leadership, communication and teamwork. Boost confidence by exploring new interests through diverse experiences. 2. Impact our community in areas such as food insecurity, education, healthcare, environmental conservation, spiritual growth, or pet adoption. 3. Connect with others who share your goals and values. By expanding your network, you can feel more connected and might make lifelong friendships. 4. Improve your physical and mental health by helping others. Volunteering can increase feelings of fulfillment and lower stress levels by finding more gratitude and purpose. 5. Create real change! Your efforts can directly impact the lives of others. Be part of something bigger than yourself.

Find More Hope

With a healthy dose of hope, people can power through stress, feel empowered to chase their dreams, and find a beacon of light when the going gets tough. Research has shown that hopeful patients heal faster, and hopeful employees are more satisfied with their jobs. Conversely, people who aren’t hopeful often feel sluggish and have little motivation and energy. So how can you amp up the hope in your life? Read on! Seek mastery: Obtaining mastery provides a sense of empowerment and purpose, instilling a sense of hope. Expand your skill set by imagining what you want to achieve and make plans to reach those goals. Write down steps you need to follow to get the results you seek. Find role models: If you suffer from a sense of hopelessness, find people who have overcome similar situations to yours. Learn from their experiences. Surround yourself with others who can help you through particularly trying times. If you don’t know anyone personally, check projecthopeexchange.com for support. Evaluate options: Feeling trapped can stifle hope. During those times when you feel stuck, think about how you’ve handled similar situations in the past or how similar strategies from different situations can help you with this particular issue. Make a plan…even a few steps you can take right now can give you something concrete to focus on. Give hope to others: Perform small acts of kindness. By doing so, you offer hope to others, and this can help boost your mood and outlook on life … and increase your feelings of hope in the process. The positive effects of acts of kindness build on each other, so make this a part of your daily routine instead of following a one-and-done approach.

The Art of Procrastination

Do you procrastinate, complain too much, over-shop, or maybe over-eat? We’re all creatures of habit (some major, some minor) and sometimes we don’t even know we do these things. Here are seven strategies to help you break some of those repetitive habits:  Think about things you do and write them down. Consider asking your friends if you do things that annoy them (text too much?) and solicit their support for changing your behavior.  Focus on one habit at a time. See if you can figure out what triggers that habit. For example, shopping may give you instant gratification. Or maybe you do it because you are stressed or bored. If you can understand why you do something repeatedly, you are one step further towards making a change.  Start small. Instead of saying, “I will no longer procrastinate,” say “I will spend 30 minutes working on this project today.” Use a timer and then take a break.  Find out how to implement a healthier routine that will give you the same reward. If you have the urge to eat, look at all your eating habits and make a commitment to a healthier diet. Avoid temptation: Get rid of the junk food in your house. Make eating healthier your new habit.  Do it with a friend or a group. Try a new activity, such as running or yoga. Groups and friends hold each other accountable.  Consider meditation. Once you know what triggers a behavior (especially stress), meditate to distract yourself when you’re in that situation.  Be your own coach. Be patient. Don’t beat yourself up if you make mistakes.