Art of Small Talk

Have you ever found yourself at a meeting or social event and been at a loss for words? Making small talk isn’t random. It follows a formula, says Bernardo Carducci, author of The Pocket Guide to Making Successful Small Talk. Carducci says you can anticipate where the conversation is going and plan ahead. Here are some tips to follow: Look for someone not talking with a group and use a simple opening line, “This appetizer (food) is great!” Or mention something about the building or room. Or how was your weekend. Or it has been nice weather lately. Then introduce yourself. If a conversation stalls, you can restart it with a compliment. That’s a great suit (tie, jewelry, color of clothing), you’re wearing. Or Any fun plans or trips coming up? Or have you been working on anything exciting lately? If there’s someone you want to talk to (but they’re talking in a group), meander over, introduce yourself to others in the group and soon enough you’ll be able to talk directly with that person. Keep it positive and light by avoiding heavy topics unless the conversation naturally deepens. You may or may not ever meet this person again, but you can always enjoy a short easy conversation. Feel free to exit gracefully by winding down with it was great meeting you or it was great chatting with you. Or I won't keep you, but it was sure nice getting to know you. Enjoy the rest of your evening.