Foster Healthy Friendships

Good friendships are good for your health and happiness, but you need to nurture them. Just like a marriage you need to work on staying connected and forgive and forget any slights. Friendships share a lot in common with marriages so don’t take them for granted and don’t forget you need to work on them to keep them healthy. Here are three reminders of small things you can do to be a better friend. Be there for your friends, in good times and bad. The most valuable thing you have to give is your time. Let friends know you care about and appreciate them. When was the last time you made a simple gesture, like a phone call or personal visit instead of an email or text? If a friend needs to talk, it’s your turn to listen. Give advice or offer your opinion, but only if your friend asks for it. Of course, keep your conversations private. Keep it fresh and dynamic. Introduce your friends to other friends. One-on-one is wonderful, but adding new friends to your circle can bring different viewpoints, interests and personalities.

Volunteer Lifestyle

Does anyone think it’s better to give than to receive? We know the answer is yes, but do we know why. Volunteering is not just for retired people we can all give back to the causes we support and make a difference. Just a couple hours per month is all you need! Here are just a few reasons to find an opportunity to serve. 1. Develop new skills in leadership, communication and teamwork. Boost confidence by exploring new interests through diverse experiences. 2. Impact our community in areas such as food insecurity, education, healthcare, environmental conservation, spiritual growth, or pet adoption. 3. Connect with others who share your goals and values. By expanding your network, you can feel more connected and might make lifelong friendships. 4. Improve your physical and mental health by helping others. Volunteering can increase feelings of fulfillment and lower stress levels by finding more gratitude and purpose. 5. Create real change! Your efforts can directly impact the lives of others. Be part of something bigger than yourself.

Kids Healthy Habits

There are lots of little things adults can do every day to instill good habits in kids. Physical • Exercise regularly as a family and make it fun! Go for evening walks in the park, take advantage of open swim days at the gym, and ride bikes together. • Eat a healthy diet. Start early with introducing a rainbow of produce and minimizing sugary snacks. Mental • Maintain – and reflect – a positive outlook. Kids mirror what they hear and see, so use positive reinforcement and praise appropriately. Celebrate your successes as well as theirs. • Keep screen time to a minimum. Sedentary behavior is known to increases risks for obesity and cardiovascular disease, and it’s not conducive to positive social or mental growth either. Set a daily limit for smartphone usage and stick to it. • Read every day. Incorporate this habit into playtime or bedtime routines to help build self-esteem and success later in life. Social • Encourage kids to explore a myriad of activities to find one (or more!) they really enjoy. Whether singing in a choir, playing soccer, taking language lessons, or volunteering with a youth group, kids will meet others with similar interests while also developing their self-identity. • Eat dinner as a family and use this opportunity to maintain open lines of communication with everyone around the table.