How to Say No

Saying “no” often means you get to say “yes” to your own needs. Here are ways to say no that won’t alienate others. Saying no works best when you combine simple gratitude for being asked, with a short and clear reason of decline. One of the keys is not over explaining why you are saying no. Just be polite and be yourself and you can say no to anything! When your boss gives you a new assignment: “That project sounds interesting. I already have a lot on my plate, what should I put on the back burner to accommodate this?” When you’re asked to give to a charity: “I’ve already donated my planned amount this month (or year), but tell me more about this charity for my next charitable round of giving.” When you’re asked to lend your truck for a move: “I’m sorry, I don’t loan out my vehicle, but let’s talk about the date – maybe I can do the driving myself.” When you’re asked to tip at point of sale: “Thank you so much and hope you have a wonderful day.” We are being presented with tip options that are not custom. Just check no tip, no shame at all.